What are the values of the American and Vietnamese? Each country will have its own culture, which will influence its character and acts in everyday life. Although there are many Vietnamese individuals in the United States today, they have always maintained the intrinsic qualities of Vietnamese culture. So, how do Vietnamese and American people differ in terms of their lifestyles, dialects, eating habits, greetings, and so on? Why are independence, equality, and timeliness so important to Americans? Here are a few of my thoughts on the subject. 1. Individuality Independence is one of the most important American virtues. Individualism is another term for independence. Americans take tremendous pleasure in their self-reliance, or ability to care for themselves, and they believe that others should do the same. This is in contrast to many other more collectivist societies. Achievement is often viewed as a reflection of an entire family or society in collectivist cultures. Consider the following scenario: Children in the United States detach from their parents earlier than children in other societies. Many people, for example, change residence after graduating from high school in order to attend college or begin working. They may be compelled to pay rent or contribute to the family if they continue to live at home. 2. Private Americans place high importance on their personal space and privacy. While seeking privacy may be frowned upon in some cultures, many Americans value their alone time and the ability to keep certain issues secret. As an illustration, Many Americans are private about key aspects of their lives and refuse to discuss them in public, such as their age, how much money they make, or their political, sexual, and religious beliefs. Some people avoid discussing these things in public because they are frightened that others may disagree with them. However, if you have any queries about these subjects, you are welcome to contact us. The majority of Americans would be delighted to show you how they perceive the world. In public, Americans tend to give each other more room than those from other cultures. They usually stand a good distance apart, around an arm's length. Many people in the United States construct fences around their homes to protect their privacy. If your youngster throws a ball or toy over a neighbor's fence, jumping over the fence to retrieve the toy is usually a terrible idea. Instead, knock or ring the bell at the front door. If no one answers, put a note on the door asking to retrieve the toy between the hours of 8 a. M. and 8 p. M. This is courteous to them while still being safe, as some people have watch dogs or are concerned about their privacy. In particular, the elderly need to be more relaxed and quiet and may not want to be disturbed. If you open a gate, you must close it. However, if you get to the already open gate, leave it open. Bedrooms are often considered private spaces. Neighbors and friends are entertained only in the kitchen, dining room, or living room. Parents and children have separate bedrooms, and American children often have separate bedrooms. 3. Directness Americans are often very direct. This means they often tell you what they think and they will be assertive about what they want. Being assertive is generally seen as a good thing in America. Here are some examples of American straightness: In some cultures, it is considered rude to decline an invitation-for example, if someone invites you to lunch, you may accept, but then not go. In America, it's almost always better to say, "No, but thank you," or "Thanks, but I've made another appointment." If you say you accepted the invitation but don't show up, the inviter might get upset. The concept of "losing face" is very different in America. "Losing face" is understood as "embarrassed", making it less serious. For example, Americans may be embarrassed if they are criticized or make a mistake. So Americans may point out mistakes or criticize you, but they simply see it as an adjustment or providing useful information. Asking for help is never rude. If a friend or neighbor asks if you need anything, they really want to help. Feel free to say, "If you go shopping and stop by the orange stand, please get me a bag and I'll pay for it." Or, if you need winter clothes, for example, but aren't sure where to buy them, you could ask, "Do you have any suggestions where I can buy cheap coats and boots for my kids?" Most Americans love to help and can become good friends and neighbors without much prompting. In general, remember that things that look rude are actually not meant to be. Americans aren't trying to be rude – they're just being blunt. 4. Equality The United States Declaration of Independence declares, "All Men Are Created Equal." In fact, some people in America don't always treat everyone equally, but most Americans have a very strong idea of equality. There are many examples in American history where not all people were treated equally, such as African-American (black) citizens being treated as slaves. However, Americans like to believe that everyone should have equal opportunities. This is part of the so-called "American Dream". Many former immigrants came to America to pursue the American Dream. They believe that if they work hard, they can advance in society. Nowadays, more and more people realize that the American Dream is not real. Many people work very hard but still don't have much money. Usually, people from well-to-do families are more easily promoted in life. However, the concept of equality is an important part of American culture. Here are some examples of equality in American culture: In legal situations, all Americans are treated equally and have the right to be represented by an attorney. Men and women should be treated equally, and men should not be valued more than women. In fact, in American society, many women still do not have the same status as men, especially in terms of money earned. Sometimes Americans will tell you what they want to be called when they introduce themselves. If a teacher or doctor introduces themselves as "Lucy" or "Professor/Doctor Lucy", you should take note. If she introduces herself as Professor or Dr. Wilson, she likes to be called. You should also know that there can still be an invisible hierarchy among people. This is often based on personal achievements, such as work, money, or education, for example. 5.informality is one of the American values American society is often informal and relaxed. For Examples: Americans can dress casually, such as by wearing jeans or shorts to work, school, or church. When you first start a job, it's best to dress modestly and then choose your outfit based on what others are wearing. When greeting others, Americans typically say "Hi" or "Hello." You use the same greeting whether you're speaking to your child or his or her teacher. There are no formal or informal greetings in this language. While American culture's discretion may surprise you, this is not rude. In fact, if someone greets you warmly and addresses you by name, it could be because they regard you as a close friend. 6.competition Americans are fiercely competitive and strive tirelessly to attain their objectives. Americans are frequently kept very occupied by competition. Many Americans consider competition to be beneficial. Here are some instances of competitive values in the United States: The capitalist economy is largely responsible for corporate competition. In the United States, the business model is to compete for clients at the lowest possible price. The Americans will plan numerous activities. Even young children engage in a variety of activities outside of school, such as athletics, music lessons, and volunteer work. Because there is so little time to rest, it can feel like Americans are "racing a race." However, many Americans feel content when they complete tasks. You may encounter competition at school, at work, and in sports. For example, students study hard to get the best grades. Many times the competition is in groups, such as a soccer team or a study group. All in all, competing values can give you culture shock, especially if you come from a culture that is more collaborative than competitive. 7. Time and efficiency are American values. Americans take their time very seriously. They get frustrated if someone or something is wasting their time. Some Americans carefully plan their time, using a daily calendar for both their personal and work lives. There is a saying in America: Time is money. This means that many Americans prefer to use their time "productively" – they want to get the most done in the shortest amount of time. This may be different from what you are familiar with. When it comes to business deals, you'll probably spend some time getting to know your partner over tea or coffee. In the US, that's usually not the case. Here are some situations where you should keep an eye on the timing: Meetings, especially at work: You should try to be on time – even 5 minutes earlier. If you have a doctor's appointment or another type of appointment, you must be on time. You may have to wait until your next appointment. However, it is important to be on time, otherwise, you may have to reschedule for another time. Activity with friends: If you're invited to someone's house for dinner, try to be on time – you might be 5 or 10 minutes late, but if it's later than that, you should probably call and let them know. Do not be more than 15 minutes late for your appointment if you are hosting a small party. For large parties with many people, you may be 30 to 40 minutes late. A good rule of thumb is that whenever you know you'll be late, you should call and let the person you meet know you'll be late. If you can't call, you should apologize for being late on arrival. Sometimes, you see people leaving very quickly or in a hurry to leave. This may be because they want to be "on time" for their next date, not because they don't like you. Being on time and being on time is a cultural difference that you may need to adapt to, because if you're late, you could lose your job, miss an appointment, or hurt others. If you have trouble adjusting to American time, you may want to buy a watch or phone with an alarm to remind you of the time, especially when it comes to getting up for work. 8. Work ethic is a fundamental American value. Americans can be very focused on their work. Sometimes, people from other cultures think that Americans "live to work," or have workaholics. This means they think Americans work too much. Part of the reason Americans are work-oriented is that being busy and active is often seen as a good thing. People also tend to be intimately connected with their work. For example, when you first meet someone, one of the first questions they might ask you is, "What do you do?" They mean, "What do you do?" 9. Consumption is an American value. As a newcomer to the United States, you sometimes think that Americans are materialistic-they focus on owning and buying things. Part of the reason for this is that many Americans value competition and work. Because of their high competitiveness, they want to "catch up" with those around them. That is, for example, if your neighbor has a new car, you also want a new car. Americans call this "racing with people's houses." Many Americans value work and have a very good work ethic. Many people see material things like TVs or shoes as a way to appear successful at work. Another reason why Americans may be materialistic is that most of them value novelty and innovation. So, even if the phone is still good, they want a new one because it has many new and interesting features. You should be comfortable living simply, or whichever way you like to save money. I would rather have more money for emergencies, education, and retirement instead of splurging on material things to impress others. II. Vietnamese Values Vietnamese people have traditional beauties such as patriotism, solidarity, respect for gratitude, industriousness, studiousness, remembering the source that has created the characteristics of Vietnam. 1. Patriotism: Patriotism is the red thread throughout the entire history of Vietnam, from ancient to modern. The history of Vietnam shows the vitality of the Vietnamese people, their endurance, and their ability to adapt to circumstances and overcome adversity to survive and develop. Thanks to that quality, the Vietnamese still exist as an independent nation to this day, while many other peoples in Asia have assimilated or failed to maintain their state. Vietnamese people also have the advantage of adapting quickly and learning quickly, but superficially and easily, rather than being receptive to the depth of culture. This is why, in today's modern, integrated society, although Vietnam represents a land that is ready to be opened for integration, it has not been culturally assimilated, still maintaining its original cultural traditions. Good culture. In addition, the attitude of respecting the community, also known as solidarity, is also a typical traditional characteristic of Vietnamese people. The solidarity of the Vietnamese people was highly appreciated before, during, and after the Patriotic War. This is one of the factors that determine the success or failure of this country. Although a high degree of community is a characteristic of Vietnamese people that contains many values, it also has many limitations. The community is overrated, inhibiting personality development and personal development because the community does not accept individuals who are outside the community and whose personalities do not conform to the "herd law" of the community. In addition to respecting the community, the Vietnamese also attach great importance to gratitude. In addition, Vietnamese people are said to be hardworking and thrifty, with a studious spirit, an intelligent and receptive nature, and an education with a thousand-year tradition. The Vietnamese view education as a pillar of culture, above wealth and success. But Professor Tran Ngoc Them commented that industrious Vietnamese people are legendary and studious is a misconception. 2. Remember the source: Vietnamese culture respects family traditions more. We are passed on by the elders of the family with life experiences and invaluable lessons for us to grow up. If I'm rude to an elderly person I don't know, I'll be looked down upon by the people around me. If I bully weak and disabled people, I will be ostracized by society. If I don't treat everyone fairly, my words will have no value. (Tiểu Quy Quy-st) Thật vui khi bạn đã đọc hết bài viết của mình
